Many people resolve to do this or that, change this or that, break a bad habit, or start a new one. Sometimes it works; often it doesn't.
Is that because so many of us are like the bird in the following story?
A man once owned an eagle, and for many years kept him chained to a stake.
Every day the eagle walked around and around that stake, and over time wore a rut in the ground.
When the eagle was getting old, his master felt sorry for him and decided to set him free. So he took the metal ring off the eagle's foot, lifted the eagle from the ground, and tossed him into the air.
He was free--but he had forgotten how to fly! He flip-flopped to the ground, walked back over to his old rut, and started walking in circles like he had for years.
No chain and shackle held him, just the habit!
You may think it’s not possible for you to change, but if you really want to and are sincerely willing to, God can change you by the miracle-working power of His Spirit.
He'll do things you can't do!
There is a saying:
“The chains of bad habits are too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken”
--and that would be true if it weren't for the Lord and His power.
You may have to put a great deal of your own will to the transformation process as well, but with God's strength and His intervention, you'll find you have more resolve, determination, and ability to change than you ever thought possible.
He said, "Whatever you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive"
(Matthew 21:22).
Following is what it means to "become a new creature in Christ Jesus"
(2 Corinthians 5:17, KJV).
Jesus coming into your life not only renews and purifies and regenerates your spirit, but it also renews your mind, literally breaking old connections and reflexes and gradually rebuilding it and rewiring it into a whole new computer system with a different outlook on life and a new way of looking at the world, with new reactions to nearly everything around you.
To change yourself is something you can’t do in your own will power and strength. If you want this change, it's necessary for you to ask Jesus to help.
Some changes are instantaneous, others take awhile.
--But if you ask Him for help and do your part, you'll be changed, because Jesus changes people!
Believe it or not, they used to build bridges by first flying a kite from one side of the river or gorge to the other.
Someone on the opposite side caught the kite and tied a little thicker, stronger string to the end of the kite string, and the men who had sent the kite over pulled the new, thicker string back across.
The teams on each side kept repeating the process, next with an even stronger string, then a cord, then a thin rope, then a thicker rope, and so on.
Eventually they could pull a small steel cable across, then a heavier one, until finally they had a cable across the expanse that was strong enough to support them and their tools and materials.
-And it all started with one tiny kite string!
Building Habits
--Peter Amsterdam
That's how habits are formed, both good and bad. Add a thread every day, and before long you can't break it.
Start developing a good habit by taking the first step, however small, in the right direction. Then keep at it until you've built up a routine that can't easily be broken.
Psychologists tell us that it usually takes us three weeks to get familiar with some new task or habit; it takes another three weeks before it becomes a habit.
Now the reason why many people are not successful in forming a new habit is because they've never made it past that six-week barrier. For your new behavior to become a habit, you must do it daily for at least six weeks.
--Maria Fontaine
So don’t give up too easily or too soon. Keep at it!
Adapted from an article by David Brandt Berg
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