Thursday, December 9, 2010

What Did You Miss In Life?

Life Is A Process.
It Is Sad That It Does Not Come The Same Again;
It Is Glad That The Same Does Not Have To Come Back Again.

In This Life, What Did You Miss?

The Wife Asked The Husband When She Was 25 .
Despondently, The Husband replied: I Missed A New Job Opportunity.

When She Was 35,
The Husband Angrily Told her That He Had Just Missed The Bus .

At 45, The Husband Sadly Said:
I Missed The Opportunity Seeing My Closed Relative Before His Last Breath.

At 55, The Husband said disappointingly:
I Missed A Good Chance To Retire.

At 65, The Husband Hurriedly Replied:
I Missed A Dental Appointment.

At 75, The Wife Did Not Ask The Husband Anymore,

The Husband Was Kneeling In Front Of The Very Sick Wife.
Remembering The Question The Wife Used To Ask Him,

This Time He Asked The Wife The Same Question.
The Wife With A Smile And Peaceful Look, Replied:
In This Life, I Did Not Miss Having You!

The Husband Was Full Of Tears.
He Always Thought That They Could Be Together Forever.
He Was Always Busy With Work And Trifles.
So Much So He Had Never Been Thoughtful To His Wife.

The Husband Hugged The Wife Tightly And Said:
Over 50 Years, How I Had Allowed Myself To Miss
Your Deep Love For Me.

In The Busy City Life, There Are Many People
Who Are Always Busy With Work.
These People Revolve Their Lives Around Their Jobs.
These People Sacrifice All Their Times And Health
To Meet The Social Expectations.
They Are Unwilling To Spend Times On Health Care.

They Miss The Opportunity To Be With Their Children
In Their Growing Up.
They Neglect The Loved Ones Who Care For Them,
And Also Their Health.

Nobody Knows What Is Going To Happen One Year From Now.
Life Is Not Permanent, So Always Live In The Now.

Express Your Gratitude To Your Loved Ones In Words.
Show Your Care With Actions.
Treat Everyday As The Last Episode Of Life.

In This Way, When You are Gone,
You Loved Ones Would Have Nothing
To Feel Sorry About.

Author: Unknown

Friday, November 26, 2010

No Second Chance

There's No Second Chance in Life...

TO THOSE OF US WHO ARE ALREADY THERE
AND TO THOSE WHO WILL SOON BE THERE...

The Secrets of Old Age

Before middle age – Do not fear!

After middle age – Do not regret!

Enjoy Your Life While You Can!

Do not wait till you cannot even walk just to be sorry and to regret.

As long as it is physically possible, visit places you wish to visit.

When there is an opportunity, get together with old classmates,

Old colleagues & old friends.

The gathering is not just about eating; it’s just that there is not much time left.

Money kept in the banks may not be really yours.

When it is time to spend, just spend, & treat yourself well as you’re getting old.

Whatever you feel like eating, just eat! It is most important to be happy.

Food which are good for health – eat often and more - but that is not everything.

Things which are not good for health – eat less but once in a while

Do not abstain from them totally.

Treat sickness with optimism. Whether you are poor or rich,

Everyone has to go through the birth, aging, sickness and death.

There is no exception, that’s life. Do not be afraid or worried when you are sick.

Settle all the outstanding issues before hand

And you will be able to leave without regret.

Let the doctors handle your body,

God handles your life & loves you,

But be in charge of your own moods

If worries can cure your sickness, then go ahead and worry.

If worries can prolong your life, then go ahead and worry.

If worries can exchange for happiness, then go ahead and worry.

If worries cannot solve the above (which it cannot), then kick it out of your mind

Our kids will make their own fortune.

Look After Four Old Treasures:

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1. Your old body – pay more attention to health,
You can only rely on yourself on this.

2. Retirement funds – money that you have earned,
It is best to keep them yourself.

3. Your old companion – treasure every moment with your other half,
One of you will leave first.

4. Your old friends – seize every opportunities to meet up with your friends.
Such opportunities will become rare as time goes by.

With Friends, Everyday you MUST laugh, dance and be happy !~!~!

5 Running water does not flow back.
So is life, make it happy !~!~!

***ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE***

Author: Unknown

Smile

Breakfast at McDonald's

This is a good story and is true, please read it all the way through until the end! (After the story, there are some very interesting facts!):

I am a mother of three (ages 14, 12, 3) and have recently completed my college degree. The last class I had to take was Sociology.

The teacher was absolutely inspiring with the qualities that I wish every human being had been graced with.

Her last project of the term was called, 'Smile.'

The class was asked to go out and smile at three people and document their reactions.

I am a very friendly person and always smile at everyone and say hello anyway. So, I thought this would be a piece of cake, literally.

Soon after we were assigned the project, my husband, youngest son, and I went out to McDonald's one crisp March morning.

It was just our way of sharing special playtime with our son.

We were standing in line, waiting to be served, when all of a sudden everyone around us began to back away, and then even my husband did.

I did not move an inch... an overwhelming feeling of panic welled up inside of me as I turned to see why they had moved.

As I turned around I smelled a horrible 'dirty body' smell, and there standing behind me were two poor homeless men.

As I looked down at the short gentleman, close to me, he was smiling'

His beautiful sky blue eyes were full of God's Light as he searched for acceptance.....

He said, 'Good day' as he counted the few coins he had been clutching...

The second man fumbled with his hands as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second man was mentally challenged and the blue-eyed gentleman was his salvation. I held my tears as I stood there with them.

The young lady at the counter asked him what they wanted...

He said, 'Coffee is all Miss' because that was all they could afford. (If they wanted to sit in the restaurant and warm up, they had to buy something. He just wanted to be warm).

Then I really felt it - the compulsion was so great I almost reached out and embraced the little man with the blue eyes.

That is when I noticed all eyes in the restaurant were set on me, judging my every action.

I smiled and asked the young lady behind the counter to give me two more breakfast meals on a separate tray.

I then walked around the corner to the table that the men had chosen as a resting spot. I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the blue-eyed gentleman's cold hand.

He looked up at me, with tears in his eyes, and said, 'Thank you.'

I leaned over, began to pat his hand and said, 'I did not do this for you. God is here working through me to give you hope.'

I started to cry as I walked away to join my husband and son... When I sat down my husband smiled at me and said, 'That is why God gave you to me, Honey, to give me hope....'

We held hands for a moment and at that time, we knew that only because of the Grace that we had been given were we able to give.

That day showed me the pure Light of God's sweet love.
I returned to college, on the last evening of class, with this story in hand.

I turned in 'my project' and the instructor read it.

Then she looked up at me and said, 'Can I share this?'
I slowly nodded as she got the attention of the class.

She began to read and that is when I knew that we as human beings and being part of God share this need to heal people and to be healed.

In my own way I had touched the people at McDonald's, my son, the instructor, and every soul that shared the classroom on the last night I spent as a college student.

I graduated with one of the biggest lessons I would ever learn:

UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE.

Much love and compassion is sent to each and every person who may read this and learn how to:

LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS -

NOT LOVE THINGS AND USE PEOPLE.

There is an Angel sent to watch over you..

In order for her to work, you must pass this on to the people you want watched over..

An Angel wrote:

Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart

To handle yourself, use your head..

To handle others, use your heart.

God Gives every bird it's food, but He does not throw it into its nest.

A box of gold

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With a secret inside that has never been told

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This box is priceless but as I see

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The treasure inside is precious to me

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Today I share this treasure with thee

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It's the treasure of friendship you've given me.

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Author: Unknown

Monday, November 15, 2010

Pencil & Eraser




Pencil: I'm sorry

Eraser: For what? You didn't do anything wrong.

Pencil: I'm sorry because you get hurt because of me. Whenever I made a mistake, you're always there to erase it. But as you make my mistakes vanish, you lose a part of yourself. You get smaller and smaller each time.

Eraser: That's true. But I don't really mind. You see, I was made to do this. I was made to help you whenever you do something wrong.

Even though one day, I know I'll be gone and you'll replace me with a new one, I'm actually happy with my job. So please, stop worrying. I hate seeing you sad.

I found this conversation between the pencil and the eraser very inspirational.

Parents are like the eraser whereas their children are the pencil. They're always there for their children, cleaning up their mistakes.

Sometimes along the way, they get hurt, and become smaller / older, and eventually pass on.

Though their children will eventually find someone new (spouse), but parents are still happy with what they do for their children, and will always hate seeing their precious ones worrying, or sad.

All my life, I've been the pencil. And it pains me to see the eraser that is my parents getting smaller and smaller each day.

For I know that one day, all that I'm left with would be eraser shavings and memories of what I used to have.

This is to all the parents out there.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

TIME






"So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom." - Psalm 90:12

Time is God's gift to mortal man;
It is that fleeting little span
Between our birth & Heaven's door
Where we begin God's evermore
When time is o'er.

How then should we our time employ,
In service, or, in passing joy?
Can we afford to throw away
And squander time in passing play,
O men of clay?
--Rev. R. E. Neighbour, D.D.

* Time is nature's way of keeping everything from happening at once.

* "Time is the coin of your life.
It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent.
Be careful lest you let other people spend it for you."
--Carl Sandburg

* To comprehend a man's life, it is necessary to know not merely what he does, but also what he purposely leaves undone. There is a limit to the work that can be got out of a human body or a human brain, & he is a wise man who wastes no energy on pursuits for which he is not fitted; & he still wiser who, from among the things that he can do well, chooses & resolutely follows the best.
--William E. Gladstone

* "The less one has to do, the less time one finds to do it in." --Lord Chesterfield

* You may delay, but time will not.--Benjamin Franklin

* 1,440 Minutes A Day

What if you were given $1440.00 at the start of each day to use as you see fit,
the only stipulation being that you must give back what you haven't spent by the end of the day?

We master our seconds and minutes, or we become slaves to them; we use time, or time uses us.
More time is wasted not in hours but in minutes.
A bucket with a small hole in the bottom gets just as empty as a bucket that is deliberately kicked over.
Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is mystery. Today is a gift.
That's why it's called the present!

* "We are always complaining that our days are few, and acting as though there would be no end." --Seneca

* "I have so much to do today that I shall spend the first 3 hours in prayer." --Martin Luther

* What Happened to Time

When as a child I laughed and wept, time crept.
When as a youth I dreamed and talked, time walked.
When I became a full grown man, time ran.
And later as I older grew, time flew.
Soon I shall find while traveling on, time gone.

* Most of us spend a lot of time dreaming of the future, never realizing that a little of it arrives each day.

USE THE BEST OF YOUR TIME FOR GOD. IT IS A PRECIOUS GIFT FROM HIM. DON'T WASTE IT!

Author unknown